Five Reasons Mindsy Psychology Can Help You

In some social circles, there’s a certain stigma that goes with seeking out therapy. Some people prefer to keep their anxieties and fears to themselves, while others may feel that it’s looked down on or seen as a sign of weakness. However, seeking out therapy, whether it be for anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, relationship woes, or addictions, necessitates strength and courage as you confront these challenges and choose a path of healing. It is one of the best things you can do for your mental health and wellbeing.

Although some problems are tolerable, others may be overwhelming and unmanageable. This is where you can really benefit from the advantages of a therapist. Regardless of the frequency, intensity, or difficulty of the problem, a therapist can help to bring some clarity to the situation and has the knowledge to give you the coping skills to manage your life effectively.

Here are 5 solid reasons to seek out and benefit from a therapist:

Reason #1: Self-care is important. Just like you go to the doctor when you are sick or hurt, it’s equally important to take care of your mental health when you feel confused, anxious, angry, or depressed. Healthy self-care practices include taking care of your overall health. A mental health professional is there to listen to your problems and help you find solutions that suit you, and is a trusted professional with whom you can unload all the “heavy stuff” without censoring the sensitive details.

Reason #2: You need an unbiased outlet. Friends and family are often times great sources of support. However, as well-meaning as they try to be, the conversation frequently gets shifted from you and your unique experience and turns into what they did to fix a similar issue. Their advice, as well intentioned as it is, may not apply to you or your situation. Also, when you disclose problems, friends and family may take it personally and have a negative reaction if the advice they gave isn’t followed.

Sometimes, disclosing vulnerable information to someone who knows you is hard. You could feel judged, it could make the relationship strained or awkward, or you could then become worried that the information isn’t completely confidential. A therapist values your privacy.

Reason #3: Understand the meaning of your hardship. It’s normal and natural to wonder, “why me?” When you have a professional therapist to help you find a sense of meaning to a tough situation or challenge, it can often diminish the severity of the problem. Therapy is a process that, with time, can help you discover the lesson your problem has given you and move forward on a clearer path to achieve your goals can teach you to find the silver lining. Good therapy is not an overnight solution. It is an ongoing investment in your overall health.

Reason #4: Attain different perspectives. Sometimes when we are going through a tough time or a difficult situation, it’s easy to get tunnel vision. A therapist offers alternative solutions and opens up discussion to help you realize there are alternative ways to tackle a problem. Therapy can broaden your perspective and eventually help you to overcome the stressor that is impacting your health and wellbeing.

Reason #5: Learn strategies for coping. Therapy can help you learn new coping strategies, so you learn to manage current problems as well as how to take those strategies and apply them to future issues. Successful strategies will help you learn to manage and minimize stress and anxiety. A good therapist will give you many strategies to try to implement and, together, you will discover those strategies that work best for you. At Mindsy Psychology, one of our goals is to give you the confidence to know you are in control of managing your problems and that you can do this!

Everyone has hardships, stressors, and problems in their life. It’s life! But you don’t have to experience the pain, stress, and anxiety alone. You can benefit from seeing a therapist and learning the skills to effectively manage stressors that pop up in your life.

At Mindsy Psychology, our therapists offer strategies, coping methods, exercises, and relaxation methods to help you. We are here to help you through these challenging times. 

Due to COVID-19, we have currently transitioned to providing our Mindsy Psychology services through Telehealth platforms until we can re-open our Chicago, IL location. If you would like to find out about our services and how we can help you through this tough time, please give us a call today at 312.761.4747 or book a consultation online. Mindsy Psychology is located at 2202 N Lincoln Avenue, Suite 7, Chicago, IL, 60614.

Feel Good by Spreading Kindness

There’s so much in the media right now: upheaval in politics, mixed information about COVID-19, protests over social equality, etc. It can be overwhelming. But the act of spreading kindness can help – and not only for the mental health of those around you. Taking the effort to spread kindness helps to improve our own mental health as well.

Here are a few things to do to turn this crazy year into one that makes you feel like you’ve done a part to bring positivity and hope to you and everyone around you.

1. Embrace random acts of kindness. Now that we’ve opened up so that we can get together with friends and family, small group events are happening, and you are encountering more of your regular inner circle, it’s a great time to show some random acts of kindness. Your act of kindness doesn’t have to be about money. People feel better when they know they are appreciated, and there can be so much value in knowing you brought a smile to someone’s face.

2. Send small gifts in the mail. Now that we can spend some time in small groups, baking some healthy goodies for your yoga class, bringing in coffee to the office, or doing a simple “pay it forward” at your favorite Starbucks may be a good idea. If it’s for someone who can’t be near you right now, unexpected letters or treats can give a loved one a huge pick-me-up. You might even consider sending a letter or card to an elderly relative you don’t see often. Getting a beautiful card in the mail would help someone feel less isolated or lonely.

3. Support your neighbors. If you’re heading to the grocery store, check in on a neighbor to see if they need you to get them something while you are out. Checking in on a neighbor will make them feel good, can make you feel good, and will remind them that there is someone close by who cares.

4. Take advantage of extra time. Even now that things are back closer to normal, you may have some extra time on your hands. Take advantage of this extra time with something that will make you feel good. Plant some flowers and put them on your porch so they are a bright, colorful reminder that life goes on. Learn a new skill or hobby. Drop off canned goods and perishables to a local food bank. There are a lot of things you can do to make yourself feel happy and positive anytime you have spare time.

5. Support your favorite small businesses. Now that you can enjoy your favorite restaurant again, make sure to tip your servers well. If you’ve chosen to hold off on in-person dining, you can order curbside or buy a gift card to help the business owner – and maybe even use a gift card or two as a special treat to show appreciation to a neighbor or someone who has helped you.

Right now, there’s an overabundance of negative messaging out there. It can be hard to maintain a healthy balance between obtaining information and remembering the light at the end of the tunnel. Make it a point to be deliberate in activities that are supportive, stress-reducing, and heartwarming. One person CAN change someone’s day for the better - why not have that one person be you?

At Mindsy Psychology, our therapists offer strategies to manage the anxiety created between wanting to get back to normal versus staying safe in the shelter of your home.  You aren’t alone in the adjustment process. It’s a new experience for all of us, and how much help and support you need is based on you and your personal needs. Don’t be afraid to ask for help. We are here to help you through these challenging times. 

Due to COVID-19, we have currently transitioned to providing our Mindsy Psychology services to Telehealth platforms until we can re-open our Chicago, IL location. If you would like to find out about our services and how we can help you through this tough time, please give us a call today at 312.761.4747 or book a consultation online. Mindsy Psychology is located at 2202 N Lincoln Avenue, Suite 7, Chicago, IL, 60614.

Easing Back into Society with Less Anxiety

Coronavirus – the news is everywhere and there never seems to be a break from it. You may have just gotten used to the shelter-in-place order, only going out for essentials, and learning how to handle the stress of being somewhat isolated from the life you were once used to.

Well, now that we’ve started opening up our economy and getting back out into society, this adds a whole new level of uncertainty and stress to what you’ve just been going through in the last 3 months. Once again, our “new normal” is changing!

During this time when you are trying to stay safe but also getting back to exposing yourself more by being out in public, remember it’s okay to not feel okay. You are not alone in this adjustment process, and it’s okay to seek help and support. 

With change comes new strategies to help manage the latest anxieties created as we are trying to get back to an open society while still staying safe from this virus. You may need to adopt some new strategies and new concepts to help aid you in this next transition. 

Go at Your Own Pace
As more businesses open and you become more exposed to crowds, your anxiety is bound to increase. It is normal and expected. Just because restaurants, salons, and malls may be re-opening doesn’t mean you have to rush to participate. Go at your own pace. Part of moving forward is knowing your boundaries – when it feels right for you – and accepting the risks at your own speed. 

Some of your friends and family may be ready to put themselves out there more than you. There’s nothing wrong with setting boundaries with your friends and family members to let them know what you feel comfortable with as you explore this new phase of normalcy. 

Let Go of What You Cannot Control
Focus on what is within your control and be alert of your surroundings as you venture out. Understand that adjustment is a process and, while it won’t look the same to everyone, flexibility and patience are needed. Anxiety comes from losing control, and we naturally feel better when we are actively in control of our own security and safety. It’s when we feel we aren’t in control, or are losing control, that anxiety rears its ugly head.

Stay Within Your Comfort Zone
As you prepare for this next step of transitioning between regaining more normalcy and staying safe, keep these thoughts in mind to help calm and steady you:

• Stick to what works for you; everybody handles stress and anxiety differently so certain strategies work better for some than others

• Only consult with sources of credible medical information - don’t overdose on the hype and misinformation 

• Take a break from the news as often as you can

Strategies to Calm Anxieties
Whether you are an essential worker or you have been completely sheltered in place since your state mandated it, there are some ways to relax and calm the anxieties that carry into this next phase:

• Meditation. Regular meditation can be very calming. There are apps for you to use such as Calm and Headspace that can promote stress management, mindfulness, and ease anxiety. 

• Controlled Breathing. There are many forms of controlled breathing, and your therapist can help you determine what works for you. When you focus on your inner calm, you feel more centered and at peace. 

• Yoga. While yoga isn’t for everyone, sometimes trying new things can be a healthy distraction, and you just might find that you like it! There are many apps to try from the convenience of your home. 

• Be Your Own Advocate. Staying in contact with your friends and family, eating familiar foods, reading a good book, or watching your favorite movie are all ways to remind you that you do have some control over your life.

Not only are we still mourning the carefree ways we used to have, but we are also unsure of how the future will ultimately look, and of course, there is still fear of getting sick. We are all on this journey together, but the key is how you can help yourself and get the help you need from a professional so you can adjust to this new way of living. 

At Mindsy Psychology, our therapists offer strategies to manage the anxiety created between wanting to get back to normal and staying safe versus the safe haven you’ve grown used to by staying home, or at least been more sheltered than before COVID-19. You aren’t alone in the adjustment process. It’s a new experience for all of us, and how much help and support you need is based on you and your personal needs. Don’t be afraid to ask for help. We are there to help you through these challenging times. 

Due to COVID-19, we have currently transitioned to providing our Mindsy Psychology services via Telehealth platforms until we can re-open our Chicago, IL location. If you would like to find out about our services and how we can help you through this tough time, please give us a call today at 312.761.4747 or book a consultation online. Mindsy Psychology is located at 2202 N Lincoln Avenue, Suite 7, Chicago, IL, 60614.